People love talking. So you should consider listening.
My best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake
Aristotle
People love talking (especially about themselves). They love talking about their problems and their life. But when someone talks, there needs to be someone to listen. So, you should consider being that someone.
Let me explain.
Recently I realized I have a large circle of good friends. I hypothesize it’s not because I am spectacular and everyone wants to be around me, but because I listen to my friends and I help them, in other words I’m a good friend. Now, I’m not belittling any of my past and current friendships. I value them. As a sign of my friendship, I respect them enough to listen and help when I can. Their problems become my problems. And like any of my problems, I try to find a way to resolve them. Sometimes, listening is all it takes. Other times, they want me to give them my opinion or do...